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The Emotional Side of Home Selling

The decision to sell your home isn’t an easy one. In fact, research has ranked selling a home as second to relationship...

  • Annie Clougherty
  • October 19th, 2022
  • 4 min read
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The decision to sell your home isn’t an easy one. In fact, research has ranked selling a home as second to relationship breakups for the most stressful experience in a person’s life. The same survey said Americans are more stressed out about selling their home than planning a wedding, getting fired or even becoming a parent.

In other words, it’s perfectly normal to have strong emotions. The good news? Though the experience can feel overwhelming and inspire doubts, it doesn’t have to get in the way of a successful home sale, and there's always a bright side. Here are three stories from homeowners that prove it.

The Story: Last Minute Memories 

Nostalgia seems to unexpectedly hit many sellers like a ton of bricks once they see their home empty and ready for its next owner. Getting caught up in the chaos of moving can only keep your mind busy for so long before you realize what you are about to leave behind. Oftentimes sellers feel the rush towards the end of the process. That’s exactly what happened to Erin, author of The Sunny Side Up Blog. She says, “I walked around room to room. I could see my baby girls running around in dress-ups. I could see our evening routine – giving them a bath and putting them in matching PJs. I could see so many sweet moments between my kids and how fast they grew right in front of my eyes in that house."

"It’s not hard to say good-bye to a house. It’s hard to say good-bye to special memories and to the end of an era. A really happy era that I will tuck away and treasure in my heart forever."

The Bright Side ☀️

“We feel so blessed to be in our new home, we are definitely going through a bit of a transition.  I know it will just take time. I also know that someday, much sooner than I can imagine, I will be walking through the rooms of our new house feeling the exact same way.”

The Story: An Empty-Nester’s Adult Kid Confronts The End of An Era

In a story from The Atlantic on navigating how empty-nesters navigated the sale of a family home, the story of Alene Bouranova stands out. Bouranova grew up in Kirkland, Washington. She was at school in Boston, Massachusetts when she got the news that her parents had sold her childhood home. 

“I started crying in the dining hall, just crying all over my plate of pasta,” Bouranova says. “I was not pleased at all. That was my home.”

The Bright Side ☀️

Although Bouranova was initially emotional about the sale of her childhood home, she came to terms with the decision and understood the reason behind her parent’s decision. 

 “It’s my parents, and as sad as I was originally, it’s their lives and they can do what they want,” Bouranova says. “I just want them to be happy.”

The Story: Moments Of Doubt

Despite being a Realtor who has guided many clients through the home-selling process, Nancy Perkins was surprised by how emotional she felt when selling her family’s home of 19 years. In an essay for The Alexandria Times, she writes how she and her husband began to doubt themselves throughout the process after realizing the attachment they had not just to the home itself but to the neighbors and neighborhood. 

“We started to doubt ourselves. Why did we need to make any changes when this house worked well for us? While we were ready for a new house, we were attached to our home, to our garden and to our neighbors.”

The Bright Side ☀️

“Like many of my clients, these thoughts kept me up at night. My fears were alleviated, however, with multiple offers, happy buyers and a quick sale, thanks to smart renovations, good staging and fair pricing.”

The Bottom Line

There’s no doubt that you won’t ever forget the memories you made in your home, but looking forward to the new memories you’ll create in the future and getting excited for what’s to come can put your mind at ease. 

No matter if you’ve lived there a couple years or many decades, selling your home can inspire a deep emotional response.

Selling your home is hard.Selling without an agent iseven harder.

Even if you’re not planning on selling soon,preparing you (and your home) to sell will help with thestress and anxiety that are sure to come.

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With over 20 years of experience, Annie Clougherty has built a reputation as one of the top real estate agents in Orange County, California, and nationwide. Representing both buyers and sellers, Annie’s expertise spans across coastal Orange County, where her deep understanding of the community and market trends sets her apart. Recognized by both her peers and industry leaders, Annie has been listed as one of the top agents in the country by the Wall Street Journal’s “Real Trends” report, ranking in the Top 1½% of agents nationwide for sales volume from 2019 to 2024. She has also consistently been ranked among the top 100 real estate agents in California. Joining Compass in its early days, Annie has been a part of its growth from 2,200 agents to over 30,000 nationwide. This network gives her unparalleled resources and connections, benefiting her clients at every stage of their real estate journey. Annie’s strategic approach, honed through years of navigating competitive markets, ensures her clients achieve the best outcomes. Whether marketing high-end properties in Newport Coast or negotiating contingent offers, her professionalism and dedication shine. Beyond real estate, Annie stays active in her community. From participating in the Newport Beach Distinguished Citizens Program to raising funds through events like Air Band, she values giving back and strengthening community ties. Annie Clougherty combines local expertise, a nationwide network, and a proven track record of excellence to deliver exceptional results for her clients.
With over 20 years of experience, Annie Clougherty has built a reputation as one of the top real estate agents in Orange County, California, and nationwide. Representing both buyers and sellers, Annie’s expertise spans across coastal Orange County, where her deep understanding of the community and market trends sets her apart. Recognized by both her peers and industry leaders, Annie has been listed as one of the top agents in the country by the Wall Street Journal’s “Real Trends” report, ranking in the Top 1½% of agents nationwide for sales volume from 2019 to 2024. She has also consistently been ranked among the top 100 real estate agents in California. Joining Compass in its early days, Annie has been a part of its growth from 2,200 agents to over 30,000 nationwide. This network gives her unparalleled resources and connections, benefiting her clients at every stage of their real estate journey. Annie’s strategic approach, honed through years of navigating competitive markets, ensures her clients achieve the best outcomes. Whether marketing high-end properties in Newport Coast or negotiating contingent offers, her professionalism and dedication shine. Beyond real estate, Annie stays active in her community. From participating in the Newport Beach Distinguished Citizens Program to raising funds through events like Air Band, she values giving back and strengthening community ties. Annie Clougherty combines local expertise, a nationwide network, and a proven track record of excellence to deliver exceptional results for her clients.

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